12. Find a rhythm.
If you’ve got music playing, using the beat to help you punctuate the experience with precise swats at regular intervals. Change it up after a short time. Getting hit on all the downbeats of «Despacito» isn’t nearly as erotic as you might think.
The way you hold your spanking hand can make a big difference to how a slap feels and even sounds. By cupping your palm and keeping your fingers together you’ll increase the depth of the sound produced without changing the pain level. A flatter palm makes more of a classic slapping noise, and adds to the pain level of a swat. You can tweak the sting further by licking your hand before each swat-or, if you want to infuse a touch a sadism, having your sub lick it for you. Continue reading 13. Change the shape of your spanking hand
